Nada Bostori : Welcome everyone to our program. We are here today with Aziz Mone, one of the most prominent life coaches. Aziz helps entrepreneurs, coaches, the public, and companies, and regularly speaks and writes about personal success in the media. This is a special interview, as Aziz i not one to do many interviews and prefers to stay away from social media to maintain his privacy. Today, we will hear from Aziz as he reveals the world of life coaching and how it can help you achieve your goals. Aziz, welcome to the program.
Aziz Mone: Thank you, Nada! I'm really happy to join you today online. It's wonderful to talk about topics that matter to many people, especially in this era when relationships face many challenges.
Nada: Definitely. Let's start with a simple question: what are the key secrets you believe lead to a happy marriage?
Aziz: I believe there are three main elements: communication, mutual respect, and emotional support. Communication is the foundation that strengthens the relationship. Couples should be able to express their feelings and needs honestly and without fear. Mutual respect means valuing each other and understanding their differences. It’s important for couples to realize that each person comes from a different background and experiences, which requires understanding and patience. Emotional support strengthens the bond and increases connection between the couple, and should be present in both good and difficult times.
Nada: These are great points. But how can couples improve their communication skills, especially given the pressures of daily life?
Aziz: Improving communication skills requires awareness and continuous effort. Couples can set aside daily time to talk with each other without distractions, like during breakfast or before going to sleep. During these moments, they should focus on active listening, which means giving full attention to what the other person is saying, without interrupting. Techniques like "non-violent communication" can help, where each partner speaks about their feelings and needs without blaming the other. This approach enhances understanding and empathy and helps solve problems in a constructive way.
Nada: A great idea! How can couples enhance mutual respect in relationships
Aziz: Mutual respect requires awareness of needs and expectations. Couples can enhance respect by giving positive feedback, whether through text messages or video calls. When each person expresses appreciation for the other, even with simple words, it strengthens the relationship. We should work on strengthening the positive aspects and be aware of each other's feelings. Learning from differences and considering each other’s perspectives is also crucial.
Nada: What about emotional support? How can it be offered in an online relationship?
Aziz: Emotional support is an essential element in any relationship. Couples should be there for each other during tough times. Support can be provided by being present in difficult moments, such as video calls during hard times or sending text messages expressing support. Additionally, couples can engage in shared activities online, like watching a movie together or playing games, which strengthens emotional bonds. Daily life experiences, even through messages or calls, can enhance connection. It’s important for each partner to feel supported and loved.
Nada: That makes a lot of sense. What other challenges do you think couples may face in modern relationships, especially with the presence of technology?
Aziz: Technology can be a double-edged sword. On the one hand, it facilitates communication, but it can also lead to problems. For example, social media can lead to unhealthy comparisons, which can cause insecurity or stress. Couples may find themselves in situations where they question their relationship or commitment based on what they see online. It’s important for couples to agree on how to use technology in a healthy way, such as setting "device-free" times to communicate more deeply and focus on each other.
Nada: How can intimacy be enhanced between couples online?
Aziz: Enhancing intimacy requires openness and creativity. Couples can talk about their needs and desires clearly, even through text messages. Activities that promote physical connection, such as dancing together on video or practicing yoga, can enhance intimacy. Couples should make time for intimacy, even in busy schedules. They can also exchange romantic messages or intimate thoughts to create a sense of closeness, which is crucial in strengthening the relationship.
Nada: Beautiful! How can conflicts be resolved constructively in online relationships?
Aziz: When resolving conflicts, couples should avoid resorting to accusations. It’s better to use the "I feel" approach to explain emotions instead of blaming. For example, instead of saying, “You always do this,” you could say, “I feel frustrated when this happens.” Couples can also choose to discuss difficult issues through video calls, where direct communication can help better understand each other. It’s also important to discuss sensitive issues and not let things build up.
Nada: It’s wonderful to hear your advice, Aziz. What is the final piece of advice you can offer to couples in online relationships?
Aziz: Certainly, Nada. The most important advice is to be patient and appreciate the efforts made by the other person. Online relationships require commitment and the ability to overcome geographical distances. It’s crucial for both partners to invest in the relationship in simple yet impactful ways, and to realize that distance is not a true barrier if there is genuine love and a desire to make the relationship work. Most importantly, they should ensure emotional compatibility and be ready to work together to achieve shared goals. Building a strong relationship takes time and effort, but the results are worth it.
Nada: Excellent advice, Aziz. Thank you so much for your time and this inspiring conversation. We know you have a busy schedule, so we really appreciate that you spent this time with us today.
Aziz: Thank you, Nada. I’m really happy to be here with you today, and I hope these tips will be useful to all the couples out there.
Nada: Absolutely, it was a rich and helpful conversation. Thank you again,
Aziz, and thanks
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About Aziz Mone
Aziz Mone is an international speaker and business coach, specializing in helping entrepreneurs and companies grow and succeed. With years of experience, he has mentored businesses globally, guiding them through challenges and helping them reach their goals.
Known for his inspiring talks on leadership, strategy, and success, Aziz motivates individuals to live exceptional lives and build impactful, resilient businesses.